How to Keep the Fun and Growth in a Committed Relationship

A relationship can be a mind-blowing adventure, then heart-breaking, and then again the most amazing thing that has ever happened to you. What I’ve seen over the years has shown me that it’s all about believing in those superpowers that two people have when they combine their love, gifts and ideas. This makes a relationship a fun and growing journey.

For today’s podcast I have invited two amazing people, Drs. Rob + Janelle Alex, Ph.D. who are the co-founders of Mission Date Night, as well as being best selling authors, speakers and experts in long and lasting relationships and intimacy dynamics. They mentor couples from around the globe, and are also hosts of the Mission Date Night podcast.

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5 (Egoistic) Reasons Why Conscious Men Give Yoni Massages

The fact that Yoni Massage is rather awesome isn’t a secret. Especially if you’re following this site, then you will know quite a bit about the tremendous effects that it can have. In fact I can state that this website would not exist if there had not been the empowering practice of Yoni Massage.

Still, when talking about it, it’s often focused on the receiver. On the “Yoni owner”. But it does a whole lot of things to the giver as well. In fact I would say that its effects are divided pretty equally between the receiver and the giver. Especially if you are a couple who is sharing this journey, and integrating it into your relationship.

I’d like to share my personal experiences, as well as what Tantra has to say on that topic. Keep in mind that I’m a man, actively working with the topics surrounding masculinity. Of course the giver can also be female or intersex, but due to my lack of experience with that physiology, I have chosen to speak from my point of view. But I’m sure everyone can get something out of this article, if they approach it with an open mind.

So, what can men get out of giving Yoni Massages?

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Mother & Lover – Why Motherhood Is the Hottest Thing on Earth

I imagine being a mother feels so powerful, so creative, so magical (I haven’t given birth yet, so I can only imagine it in my wildest dreams). But the fact is, every mother on this earth builds a beautiful human life inside her womb! Wow, so how hot is that?

Still, many women project a certain lack of sexiness onto themselves after childbirth. As a mother you give so much that you unlearn how to receive, to the point that you consider yourself unworthy of feeling pleasure. One of my clients even told me that the lover in her died when she became a mother.

Sure it’s not so easy to nourish intimacy with your partner once you are a mother. It requires some skillful planning. But I wonder why it is that the most powerful and sexy symbol is put down by many mothers themselves?!

In this podcast episode I discover the hotness of motherhood with the wonderful Lauren White from Sexosophy. She is a Sexologist and just recently became a hot mama.

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8 Ingredients for a Spicy Long-Term Relationship

People often ask me: How do you keep your relationship spicy?

For the background information: I literally spend almost every second of my life with my boyfriend (with whom I’ve been having a happy relationship for more than 7 years, (very soon to be 8) and still, we manage to keep our attraction towards each other up. Let’s talk about what we do to keep the secret juices in our long-term relationship flowing.

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Painful Sex: 6 Simple Tips That’ll Turn Your Pain Into Pleasure

You or your lover experiencing painful sex? The oooh, oooh—ouch! is familiar when it comes to the intimate parts in your life? First of all: Don’t worry, you are not abnormal:

According to the 2009 National Survey of Sexual Health and Behavior, 30% of women reported pain during their last sexual encounter.

Having experienced pain during sex myself, I did my own research behind the curtain of pain, and discovered a great potential. A potential that will blow your mind. And one that’s just screaming to be shared with you all.

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7 Tantric Sex Hacks for Lasting Longer in Bed

Guest Post by Noel White.

When looking at modern sex life, one could assume there’s some sort of incompatibility between men and women.

Just looking at the time that it takes to orgasm: Men on average arrive at their climax after around 5 minutes, while women need 15-40 minutes.

The statistics arising from various studies, of course, vary for both. But it is safe to say that we’re looking at 25+ minutes for women to reach deep states of orgasm. Men, on the contrary, are ready almost instantly.

The societal accepted workaround is foreplay. But wouldn’t it be nice to be able to match the male and female pleasure curves a bit better?

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